
Like honestly how narcissistic and selfish do you have to be to always think that women do what they do TO ATTRACT MEN all of the time?? It’s like they don’t think women are people at all and have their own interests. When you yourself don’t have much going on, of course it leaves time to worry about what the entire female population is doing and then fail at that because it is scientifically impossible to generalize behavior even in animals.
It is so exhausting to constantly live with the assumption that you revolve around a damn man. God forbid I am my own person doing whatever the hell I want to do. Sometimes it does have to do with a man. Sometimes(most of the time) it doesn’t. Stop assuming my intent every fucking time and let me live!!!
I agree with u sm I think this narrative is pushed more by some guys because they’re narcissistic and think everything is about them. And the pick me’s add onto it bc their eyes haven’t opened that the guys aren’t on their side either and would rather protect a fellow man than girl victims, especially with the example of someone getting raped and going “what was she wearing” is literally putting the blame onto the woman rape is such a power move and takes planning as if it’s not planned assault
Right!! I was sa’d growing up. Nobody ever believed me. But when I wore an off shoulder but otherwise appropriate top, I was told to put something else on bc I “didn’t want to give him a reason.” After that I was done. I started wearing wtv the hell i wanted because it’s NOT a woman’s fault if a man can’t control his own urges and I’m not holding back to prevent a man from doing what he was going to do anyway! Then it was “you’re doing it for male attention.” Gimme a BREAK