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Does anyone else feel cisgender but just not really enjoy being a woman? I feel like there is more to me than my socialization and the clothes I wear and my body. I don’t mind being feminine, I just feel burdened by expectation.
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Anonymous 2d

I love that I’m curvy and I love wearing dresses and I hate that I have to try so hard to be liked and can’t be gay with the boys

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Anonymous 2d

Omg right before you posted this I was remarking how comfortable and happy I feel in baggy androgynous clothing that doesn’t allow me to be a target for sexualizatiok or judgment of my body

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Anonymous 2d

i thought i was nonbinary for a couple years because of this, and it really didn’t help when i was SA’d and i felt like being a woman wasn’t safe. but it turns out womanhood is a crazy ride and it takes a lot of unpacking. especially because of the expectations and s*xualization and such.

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Anonymous 2d

thats just the reality of being a woman rn i fear

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Anonymous 2d

Is this a thing you go through growing up? Not really digging it? Not in a transgender way, btw— I have trans friends and what they go through is very different than what I feel

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Yeah, at least it’s not just me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Real shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

yeah that made it more extreme for me too because he wouldn’t have misunderstood me if I was a boy or at least not so much a girl

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