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Girl Talk 3w

It’s so hard for me to believe that life doesn’t end for women after they have kids

Anonymous 3w

It doesn’t if you have community but in America it’s been going away

Anonymous 3w

I feel like it strips you of your identity completely and no one can change my mind. Like the minute people find out you have a kid all you’re only the mother of that kids name. You could be out at the club or just enjoying yourself “ where’s your kid?” On vacation, at work! You post yourself of social media it’s like you can’t not post your kids. And then the grandkids come! It’s never ending. Dads DO NOT deal with this in that same form.

Anonymous

#1 3w

I more meant it as I only know what I’m surrounded by. And I’m surrounded by women who purposely had women very young and get angry at other women who don’t do the same. None have degrees. None have traveled. None have friends or hobbies. None take care of themselves. Literally nothing but “mother”

Anonymous

OP 3w

Well yeah so you can know that it’s not the best way of living

Anonymous

#2 3w

Omg yes. My brother has a kid and no one says a word about how he didn’t have a bedroom for her at his house until she was 14. No one cares that he never posts pics of her. No one cares that when it’s his turn to have her he just comes over for a few hours and she sleeps at our parents house. But they complain about her mom dropping her off at her aunts for a few hours a day. Complain about her mom posting selfies here and there and not her kids 24/7. Etc

Anonymous

#2 3w

Honestly I think it’s more my family doesn’t make being a mother a good environment