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I feel like I’m always the one making plans but he’s always down. Like I wanna see him again but I’m sick of being the one with balls…what do I do
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Anonymous 2w

Tbh just be honest with him abt it, he might not realize he’s making you do all of the work and asking him to take charge for a bit isn’t out of bounds

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

like what do I say

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

we’re not serious but we both like each other

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I mean there are a few different ways to go about it but you could just say something like “hey so I’ve noticed I’ve been the one reaching out abt plans for a bit, it’s not a huge deal but it’d be nice if you took charge with our plans a little more. I really like you and spending time with you and I guess I just wanted to be totally transparent!” Ik this might be a bit direct but if you wanted, use it as a blueprint? Just tell him how you feel and reiterate that you like him and this isnt huge

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I will say though, he might just be like this — and you deserve someone who has the balls to initiate with you and take you out. If you talk to him and it doesn’t change, I’d let this one go and find someone who knows you’re worth ❤️

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