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Girl Talk 9w
What pisses me off the most is when I go to my best friend about something personal and then she gives a blunt response, sends a pic of herself in chat she took and changes the subject… Let me give an example in the comments…
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Anonymous 9w

My boyfriend had decided to enter the portal and transfer out of our college for a sport. I was obviously upset bc we didn’t know where he was going and my worry is if we could make this work because he is my person. I tell her this and she responds with “Just buy a dildo.” Sends me a pic of herself at the beach with friends. And I tell her it’s not the sex and then she proceeds to send me a voice message about how there’s so many hot guys at the beach and she just wants to get laid now that

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Anonymous 9w

this happens to me too. not as bad but it's like she doesn't even try to help me or offer and solid support. ofc when she has an inconvenience, i'm supposed to listen to it and help her but get told "i have to go" before i get to talk about my own situation. i love her to death but omgg it's like im better off in my own head with this stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

she’s 18 and can go whatever she wants. Like oh. Okay, guess me crying bc my long distance boyfriend over the summer, will now become long distance over the school months too. But ig it’s more important that she gets laid, than how I feel in the moment. She also told me to breakup with him and hoe around, which was her plan… but I’m not like that. She’s literally just pmo all the time and I can’t ever get my feelings out bc she brags about the guys she’s hooking up with every night.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

No literally. I was there for her as much as I could be when something happened to her, but when I need something it’s a blunt answer and off to the next thing… Like you said, I love her, but she thinks she’s the shit now that she’s 18… she lost her purse at the mall and her first thing was “My vape was in there. I was excited for that.” And that pissed me off bc I would be worried more about my cards and cash rather than something that’ll kill you in 20 years

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