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I want a boyfriend in the way men want kids. It’s a nice idea but I don’t want to actually take care of it
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Anonymous 11w

I would like a boyfriend but what I reaallly need is a close group of (girl) best friends. I need to find my forever friends so I stop caring about men so much

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Anonymous 11w

I want a boyfriend so he'll do the things I don't want to (drive, take out the trash, laundry, paying)

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Anonymous 11w

Me liking this post even tho i have a bf haha - cuz real girl i get u

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Anonymous 11w

I think you need to find a man who can take care of themselves girl. don't ever take care of a grown man the way a mother would take care of their child. find a partner, don't be anyone's mom

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

i agree with this but having a man as well is god

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

good

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

See that is all fine and nice until all of them have a man except you 😭 it’s a different kind of pain

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Genuinely the realest take I’ve ever heard. A boy would be nice but a group of girls to connect with is such a priority over dating

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

this is true but it’s important that your inner circle doesn’t turn on you…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

no but why do some girls get both i dont understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Generally the girls who stick around don’t care about the men as much as the friends. Maybe you currently don’t have the friends because you care about the men too much?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 11w

Yeah I think my issue is finding men with mommy issues. Like obviously you’re gonna resent me for not acting like your mother should have

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