Girl Talk on Sidechat | so wtf do i do when i need to learn to love myself and be alone but i also want to have sex like how tf am i gonna do this i don’t wanna be horny and frustrated all the time

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Girl Talk 1d

so wtf do i do when i need to learn to love myself and be alone but i also want to have sex like how tf am i gonna do this i don’t wanna be horny and frustrated all the time

Anonymous 1d

I went through this last summer after an extremely long and abusive relationship. I forced myself to do things alone even if I felt terrible. I held myself too it. Like getting coffees and walks. I ACTUALLY went to the gym even if it was just cardio. Then I somehow picked up running in an area I felt alone and at peace. Literally a trail along some corn fields. Then I was invited out to some places made some light friends off my posts and I’m still alive type shit.

Anonymous 1d

i feel like this is a man lol but you can masturbate or find a FWB

Anonymous 23h

have u heard of a vibrator

Anonymous 20h

I've been going through this exact same thing too queen. You're not alone 🫶

Anonymous

#1 1d

I took myself on day trips to the beach, the renn faire, the zoo. Where ever I felt I could go, where he and I never went to start. Made those places my own and refuse to take ppl there. Then I was bored through it all, not MANY friends but some to keep it moving. I went on dating apps and set my status to casual relationships. Found a few ppl I thought were hot, some were really well off and some were cheesy “I’m getting deployed” type men. Who cares it was casual. But doors were always open

Anonymous

#1 1d

Had some of the BEST sex of my life when ever it worked out. And that’s it, when winter came I locked in and wish I didn’t but I hate the cold and going outside even to my car. I have genuinely grown and matured from that experience, my only negative was prior it all, during, and now after I have just learned to be alone and at peace with my own comfort but still gets upsetting when I want more and need to figure out how to get back in the social scene again. Wash rinse repeat

Anonymous

#1 1d

Like even if I felt upset being alone and no plans, I get myself made up enough to look like I was going out nothing crazy. And just sat in my car in a safe area and enjoyed like some good thunder storms or even then, sometimes a guy would hit me up super later and I’m kinda already to go. Or a friend will invite me out to a bar at like 10:30. It’s all about JUST DO IT and everyone is living a their pace in their storyline,

Anonymous

#2 21h

every time i try fwb they catch feelings

Anonymous

#3 21h

i need to try a new one

Anonymous

OP 21h

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