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Cool, good for you. Okay let’s post our body counts. Mine is around 30ish
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Anonymous 16h

I really don’t get it. I had terrible mental health when I was hooking up a lot, but it was terrible prior to that so not really causation. If anything, it helped build my confidence and social skills in a major way. Now I have a fiancé who knows my body count and loves me very much, and it’s just part of my history. Fun while it lasted 🤷🏻‍♀️ if anything, it taught me what I do and don’t like in a sexual partner so I can advocate for myself.

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Anonymous 16h

this is crazy bc yall have been COUNTING??? like KNOTCHES ON OUR BEDPOSTS from that Fall Out Boy song?? 😅🥲

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Anonymous 16h

Only 1 tbh but idgaf if somebody’s is higher

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Anonymous 16h

What is that girl on

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Anonymous 16h

4

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Anonymous 15h

Mine is probably 20 ish

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Anonymous 15h

Mines 4

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Anonymous 12h

0 because I’m not ready yet 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Same, with every sexual encounter I learned more about my likes and boundaries. And did help me socialize more, too, bc I used to be so shy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Same! I can talk to pretty much anyone now like we’re old friends, even if we just met for the first time 2 minutes before. I actually probably wouldn’t have even met my fiancé in the first place without that experience because he’s so attractive and I know my formerly shy, insecure ass would’ve NEVER thought she had a chance 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

But idk what to count bc I got pelvic floor issues so it don’t work sometimes LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

I honestly do see what the big issue is around having a high body count is, like I think is good to explore and see what you don’t like and do like especially if past bodies don’t work out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

ohhhhhh that’s what that meant

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