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I hate how ppl can’t be straight forward. Telling ppl straight up doesn’t have to be this horrible thing. Why does everyone have to be so quiet abt the things that make them upset. Just say it. Everything isn’t gonna fall apart bc u did
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Anonymous 5w

confrontation is hard for a lot of people not everyone is really taught how to properly do it either

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Anonymous 5w

sometimes things don't seem like that big of a deal until you've been through it 10 times and it finally hits you that it's an issue, but by then people accuse you of not communicating and should've done it sooner.

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Anonymous 5w

Sorry I have an anxiety disorder I can’t help it 😭🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

I’ve told at least the ppl around me explicitly that I need them to be straight forward w me, but they don’t seem to do it even when I say I won’t get upset and that I really care abt them and want to know if something I did affected them negatively. Also, telling someone that they need to relax doesn’t have to be mean or intense. It’s just communication

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

So far the only form of communication I’ve gotten is ppl ignoring me. It communicates, but it’s rude as fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

It’s cool that it takes a min to realize, but it’s not cool when you’re ending a relationship over smthing you never communicated. Sure, it’s like “you should’ve told me sooner!” But i feel like that response come more from care than accusation when they actually gaf abt you. Like if someone told me smghing I’ve consistently done had hurt them, I would be devastated

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Me too, but I still know how to say smthing when it needs to be said especially when it’s to the ppl closest to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I literally can’t I feel like my throat closes up

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