
I’ve told at least the ppl around me explicitly that I need them to be straight forward w me, but they don’t seem to do it even when I say I won’t get upset and that I really care abt them and want to know if something I did affected them negatively. Also, telling someone that they need to relax doesn’t have to be mean or intense. It’s just communication
It’s cool that it takes a min to realize, but it’s not cool when you’re ending a relationship over smthing you never communicated. Sure, it’s like “you should’ve told me sooner!” But i feel like that response come more from care than accusation when they actually gaf abt you. Like if someone told me smghing I’ve consistently done had hurt them, I would be devastated