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Girl Talk 11w
If you cannot stick to plans, or times, I do NOT like you
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Anonymous 11w

especially without communication 🫩

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Anonymous 11w

gentle reminder that this can actually be a symptom of executive functioning disorders like adhd

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Last minute switch ups NO THX count me OUT

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

That would be my entire friend group😅 (half of them DO have adhd)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Which I still love my friends, but it IS incredibly frustrating as a type A person😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

oh, sure, you have every right to be frustrated. just trying to spread awareness. if you want to go above and beyond to help people who have these types of issues, you can either remind them a few minutes ahead of time or meet them at their place to go where you’re going.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

I have ADHD & bipolar and normally I’ll have to give constant updates because I genuinely just don’t know until night before/day of a lot of the time 😭 I’d love to be consistent but that’s just not how it works

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Thx for bringing this up #2🩷 as someone with adhd I have a lot of trouble with this sometimes and I feel extremely guilty and unreliable for it- and get worried everyone is mad at me. I wish I wasn’t like this 🧍🏻‍♀️

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