Sidechat logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Girl Talk icon
Girl Talk 2w
i have a huge dilemma. i have a friend who i’ve been friends with for a long time. i was friends with her boyfriend first but never as close as i have gotten with her. she got caught cheating on him last summer (i had genuinely no idea) and has since…
comment

6
upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

said she stopped but every-time we drink together she admits she’s still talking to this guy. i don’t know what to do i’m in such an uncomfortable situation and i honestly am just in shock she would do this. my boyfriend is best friends with her boyfriend so i feel like i can’t tell him or her will tell her boyfriend . the whole thing give the the ick about her because i really didn’t think she was the type of person to do this. on top of the cheating he does everything for her pays the full…

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 2w

Omg cut ur friend off and tell her boyfriend it is so not fair to him

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

rent, bought her a car, pays all the bills, buys all the groceries, etc. and she almost just thinks of that as his job like because he the man he should be doing all of that stuff. the reason i’m so apprehensive about saying anything is because she really is my best friend but the whole situation is making me physically not be able to spend time with her because i know what she’s doing behind closed doors

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

like and idk if anything i say would even make her stop maybe if i was like hey im sorry but your actions really are making me not want to hangout with you. like and honestly i feel like it already might be to late for our friendship i have no desire to hangout with her anymore and my boyfriend almost begs me to hangout with them on the weekends ( they are really close too)but i just can’t be around them without feel uncomfortable

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

ughhhh i feel like i know this is the right option i just dont want to admit it

upvote 6 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I learned the hard way that you really need to stand your ground tbh…I had to cut of someone I loved because I didn’t agree with his actions 😭😭 long story but sort of similar but I had to do so much reflection and I realized that you can’t really talk them out of doing things. Like if they wanna cheat, nothing you’ll say will stop them. So only you can choose to accept the situation, stay with them, or leave. I asked for distance but I ended up blocking bc it felt l no longer knew them

upvote 1 downvote