am i crazy or if you committed to be in someone’s wedding party, unless there are extenuating circumstances, you’d do everything you can to be there for you’re best friend right? not make an excuse and leave the night of the wedding….right…?
yes u should do everything to be there, leaving midway is rude af especially if its ur best friend
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Anonymous18h
absolutely. if u knw ur not a person with the bandwith to be there for someone in such an important event, then its ur job to not commit to it.
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Anonymous#218h
like that's a 1 way ticket to losing a friend if there's no extenuating circumstances ofc that you have to leave right after for
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Anonymoushooters17h
okay, so my maid of honor texting me a week before my wedding making an excuse to leave is rude, at least i’m not crazy for thinking this….idk what to do
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Anonymous#217h
yea, unfortunately i will never be able to look at her the same after this. she knows that in the past i’ve had friends ditch me the ONE time i planned something for my birthday, never planned anything again. so im very disappointed and saddened that she is doing this to me
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AnonymousOP17h
a week before is crazy fucking work wtf, she couldn't let you know way before hand?? girl the only thing you can do is just find someone else and forget about her ass entirely. If she doesn't want to be there then dont force her 🤷♀️ then you dont have to think about her anymore
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AnonymousOP17h
i'm so sorry ur having to go thru this :/ big stuff like this really does show u ppls true colors with capacity to care abt other ppl
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Anonymoushooters15h
i know😭😭i literally was like hey if you can’t do this, it’s fine just tell me, and she was like nope i still wanna be there i just HAVE to leave. i love her, it just caught me so off guard and i can’t get a fill in a week before, the dress color is out of stock😭😭
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Anonymous#215h
i know, it just sucks, like i finally thought i had people who wouldn’t leave, WRONG