Girl Talk on Sidechat | my friend is less conventionally attractive than me. to me, she is utterly beautiful, and funny and charismatic and outgoing. but guys hit on me and not her at bars. she gets really upset each time and idk what to say then. does anyone have advice?

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my friend is less conventionally attractive than me. to me, she is utterly beautiful, and funny and charismatic and outgoing. but guys hit on me and not her at bars. she gets really upset each time and idk what to say then. does anyone have advice?

Anonymous 1w

Just remember it’s not your fault, I’ve had friends get upset and tear me down in the process. Just remind her that she is so beautiful and the right guy will always chose her and while attention from guys at the bars does feel good, it is short lived

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#1 1w

thanks i’ll try that. i find it difficult because im trying really hard to decenter men from my life and her obsession with guys talking to her or me at the bar bothers me a lot because it feels like she can’t just have fun with me