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Kind of concerned that my bf of 4 years cheated on me. Help
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Anonymous 21w

And now they have a big gc from the trip and hang out a lot, going to bars and stuff and I’m not there. There’s this one girl who was on the trip and something just felt off about her

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Anonymous 21w

He went on a trip mid may with a bunch of his friends and his friends sister’s friends and when I saw him after that something felt off and idk if I’m paranoid or what

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Anonymous 21w

And I don’t wanna be like crazy gf or anything or like make a big deal out of nothing but it really feels weird

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Anonymous 21w

trust your gut, it’s almost never wrong and you seem to have very valid reason to feel the way you do. even if he wasn’t cheating, he’s not reassuring you so it’s the time to decide if he’s worth the second guessing and anxiety of the unknown

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Anonymous 21w

where did they go?

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Anonymous 21w

and for how long?

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Anonymous 21w

Then the other day I went on his phone and looked at the gc and someone sent a picture of my bf and the girl next to each other at a bar and someone wrote “I ship” which he responded to and just said no

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Anonymous 21w

But then his friend texted him separately about another thing and asked if my bf was gonna go to their friends house to hang and said that the girl would be there

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Anonymous 21w

Ok the summer I turned pretty

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

Like 4 days

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

Okay but the thing is I haven’t confronted him about it yet. I tbh don’t think it’s like cheating cheating but more of like an emotional weird situation. Like it’s so weird to me he’s letting them talking about shipping him with someone in a gc like why are u even in the position where that would be ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

And I’m just like what do I do???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

the emotional cheating is where it starts, confront him and tell him how you feel completely honestly. his response should tell you if your fear is irrational or not

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