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being with men feels humiliating
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Anonymous 14w

It’s because men are socialized to hate women. Doesn’t matter if you’re pretty or ugly. Rich or poor.

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Anonymous 14w

Easy solution: never be with a man again

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Anonymous 14w

sounds like you’re with the wrong men…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

you’re so right :( i think i’ve been really trying to avoid reality by coming up with other reasons for it but it all circles back to this. it’s exhausting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

it’s all men.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

no it ain’t girlie. i feel proud to be with my fiancé since he’s a good man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

that’s awesome for you. he was still raised in a misogynistic society and unless he’s done the work to unlearn that, it’s still present in him. if you’re able to ignore that more power to you, but i can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

girlie….who hurt you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

the answer is so insanely obvious if you have even an ounce of critical thinking skills

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

no need to be rude but okay. you still have to have faith that a good man with morals and values is out there. saying that all men were raised to hate women is actually a stupid thing to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

ignorance is bliss so i really can’t fault you for wanting to believe that, but we live in a patriarchy. all men are raised to view women as inferior. read more feminist literature if you’re still confused bc im not doing this on yy after i’ve already had a shitty day lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

girl your cage is sooooo decorated omg🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14w

be honest with me what about my post implied i would do anything different

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