
if you're not 5'1 or shorter you cannot understand how big of a difference a small amount of weight makes on us. i'm 5'0, i lost ten pounds in my first year of college and my clothes were noticeably looser and people started asking about it. yes 120 or 130 is overweight for us, we have less weight to start with (smaller bones and organs) and even small weight gain is extremely noticeable spread over a smaller frame.
ngl as someone around this height and weight, i feel like ive just been called overweight by this comment (“yes 120 or 130 is overweight for us”)… no it isn’t. this is the weight i’ve gotten to after having an ED… and like #1 said, 10 pounds can noticeable for anyone not just someone shorter. either way, OP is right and it’s not overweight and people shouldn’t be putting that unhealthy narrative out here, even like this comment is kinda doing in a less direct way :/
hey so i love how you assumed i wasn’t short — i was actually this exact height and weight in middle school! my BMI was around 23 when we calculated it in gym class. the threshold for being overweight is 25. my stomach was relatively flat at 120lbs also so even with thicker thighs i did not look overweight either
also we have to consider lean vs fat mass!! at two different points in my life I’ve been 150lbs, 19ish and now. i looked 2x the size at 19 than i do now bc it was fat back then and not muscle. people consistently assume i weigh closer to 130 when they look at me now vs 150. I have a little extra padding around the middle bc of pcos but i am nowhere near being obese like looking solely at my height and weight would suggest