Anonymous #1 9w

i genuinely have heard both ways. but i will say that the people who think the way i do also do not want/have kids lmao so they say its like 20s pt 2 except you have grown up money lmao. it definitely varies by what u want for ur life, its def looking like late 20s-30s for me, but definitely make the most of ur 20s if ur goal is kids and settled by 30!!

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Anonymous OP 9w

it's such a tough thing bc i want kids but then idk i think im gonna probably settle for having a few years of my 30s to me and possibly being married and then get serious this is scary

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Anonymous #1 9w

bro take all that worry and preplanning and throw it out the window rn lmao, bc its not gonna work out exactly how and when u want it anyways😭 when i was 20 i was practicing lsats interning at a firm bc i was convinced i was gonna be a lawyer, had a bf i swore i was gonna marry, a pinterest board of where we were gonna move. im now almost 23, in vet school, still in the south, and havent seen that man in over a year. just vibe twin

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Anonymous OP 9w

like u can plan it down to the month if you wanna and i bet within the first year smthns gonna throw a wrench in those plans. thats part of the 20s experience. you get real good at pivoting and adjusting and accepting that. so. dont stress about it queen, itll work out the way its supposed to. and happy early birthday 🎉

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Anonymous OP 9w

you're right twin what matters right now is living my life to the fullest and going with the flow

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Anonymous OP 9w

also thank you for the happy birthday!!

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