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Is it normal if you were bullied growing up to not be able to comprehend the fact that you are your own person? Like I cannot believe I am actually an independent adult in college and working and voting bc I never thought of myself as like real or
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Anonymous 1d

Yeah I don’t know if it was my strict upbringing or if I have autism but im 25 and I’ve never even applied for a job and the last time I went to a party someone asked my husband if I have autism 💀 like I don’t know, maybe…

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Anonymous 1d

I wasn’t bullied growing up but I still feel that way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

And I will get an assessment one day… that is when I can afford one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

So I think it’s normal to have that imposter syndrome of not feeling like an adult to some degree, but I think it’s pretty extreme for me. And the imposter syndrome has somehow become WORSE between 21 and 25. At 21 I was like “I have no idea what I’m doing but I’m sure I’ll figure it out” at 25 I still have no idea what I’m doing and I don’t think I’ll ever figure any of it out 💀

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