Anonymous #1 21h

An astute observation of how men are dating each other is homophobia? Then is my astute observation of how straight people are dating heterophobia?? I would’ve respected you more if you just called me a misandrist.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Boiling down queer love to hypersexuality is like one of the top big three homophobic talking points. Lesbians do the same thing and so do straight ppl, there are genuine points to be made here but saying men bad because gay men have many sexual partners is wild

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Anonymous #1 21h

I’m not talking about queer. You seem to be a sensitive garden gnome. I’d advise you to leave. If you can’t read criticism objectively don’t read them at all. Doesn’t take 2 brain cells to understand I’m analyzing men.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Men don’t stop being men just because they’re dating each other. Sounds like you’re the weirdo here.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Youre talking about gay which is queer. U gotta be trolling honestly 💀i agree with your og post but shaming gay men for having multiple sexual partners and enjoying sex differently than you? Weird. There are so many similar points u couldve made with just a hint more nuance

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Anonymous #1 21h

You seem to think men stop being men when they date men. The same thing women complain about is the same then gay men complain about. But it seems like you only see value in being a raging negative IQ lunatic then listening to gay men’s experiences.

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Anonymous OP 21h

I didnt say anything about that. There are many ways patriarchy and misogyny are baked into gay and lesbian relationships but calling gay men shallow for having sex is the oldest trick in the book. What about lesbians who have a lot of sexual partners?

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Anonymous #1 21h

I called them shallow because that's how they act. The more comments you type the more it's obvious you know nothing about gay culture. You've never swiped through grinder and looked at peoples profiles. And never heard "no black, fats and Asians". You don't watch gay men online talk about their dating experiences and you certainly don't know the gay beauty standard. Just shit commenting online to feel good about yourself.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Them being gay wasn’t even the focal point of my post. Them being men was the point of the post. How they behave in heterosexual relationships and how those bad behavior women complain about is magnified on a larger field when it’s just them amongst themselves. But I guess that was too much on a literary analysts for you that you needed to be typed out. Instead of asking a follow up question you had to be antagonistic.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Youre lowkey going off the deep end pal. I commented cuz im a lesbian and i hate seeing takes like this without any context. There are a lot of things to say about how patriarchy works without women, but gay men are sluts is maybe the least interesting. Youre right that there are problems of objectification and hypersexual bias but in ur post is just reductive

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Anonymous #1 21h

You commented to be on some fake woke moral high ground. You didn’t comment to understand my take. You commented to be antagonistic. Which is funny. Even as a lesbian you’re still male centered lmaoo look at how deep patriarchy goes. A man would never try to defend a woman with many partners; in fact we have so many names for women like that. But a lesbian took time out their day to do something a gay man would never do.

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Anonymous OP 21h

Another microcosm of my initial point — women have no friends in this world. Not even other women. Looks like not even one that likes them romantically lmfao wow we’re so fucked.

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Anonymous OP 21h

What is wrong with someone having multiple sexual partners? How am i centering men besides talking about them cuz thats what youre talking about?

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Anonymous OP 21h

How on earth am i not being an ally to women besides disagreeing with you

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Anonymous #1 20h

You’re still treating gay men as a separate group from straight men. That probably circumvents your brain thinking you’re not centering them just cause it’s lgbt related. Even calling yourself a lesbian I would think you’d know the significance behind that term and not just calling yourself a gay woman.

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Anonymous OP 20h

It shouldn’t have taken you so long to see I’m talking about men. You kept a strong grip on me being homophobic when everything I’ve said I could cite at any moment, anytime.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Ppls identities/classes are intersecting and multiple i acknowledge this. How am i treating gay men different?

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Anonymous OP 20h

R u gonna actually respond to anything im saying or asking or just keep asserting im saying things im not

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Anonymous #1 20h

I need you to read OUT-LOUD everything you've responded to me. Then let me honestly know if you've been treating gay men as men.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Wdym treating gay men as men? I was talking more about your rhetoric than anything, and also was wondering about whether you apply this logic to gay women as well as men

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Anonymous #1 20h

Why would I apply it to gay women if I’ve been talking about men this whole time.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Maybe you need to reference my original post and get a refresher.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Youre talking about misogyny which involves women... and about how gay men are men and thats bad in the way they have multiple sexual partners, i was curious about the intersection with gay women and what it means to you when they have multiple sexual partners? Is your contention that ppl in general shouldnt have multiple sexual partners?

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Anonymous #1 20h

I think you’re reading what you want to read. Remove what you think I’m saying and just read what I’m saying. I promise I’m not doing rocket science.

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Anonymous OP 20h

I do find it funny you explicitly used misogyny when I haven’t used it. But when I told you I’d respect you more if you called me a misandrist, you completely ignored that and continue reading what you wanted lmfao

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Anonymous OP 20h

Youre saying that the way gay men have multiple sexual partners shows that men are inherently shallow and sex obsessed, no? I am wondering what about women with multiple sexual partners? How do you feel about that?

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Anonymous OP 20h

What else are you talking about when youre expressing your frustration with the systemic objectification of women by men 😭😭😭 regardless of if you said the words explicitly youre discussing patriarchy and misogyny

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Anonymous #1 19h

I literally made a post about that. And you don’t seem interested in understanding my point you’re trying to find a weird gatcha to bring back in your homophobic angle. Just say that and go on about your day. You’re not as sneaky as you think you are. Very ABC, 123 argument structures you’ve brung to the table.

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Anonymous OP 18h

Sneaky? Im trying to be clear because u keep deciding to interpret whatever you want from what im saying

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Anonymous #1 18h

You’re not being clear. Only person who read whatever they wanted has been you this entire time.

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Anonymous OP 17h

Girl as if you havent been barely responding to what i actually said

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Anonymous #1 16h

So you’re as dumb as the men I’m dissecting? Got it.

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Anonymous OP 16h

Great example of not acknowledging what i said thank you

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