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I bring a sort of “I don’t want to have sex immediately with a stranger” vibe to the conversation that men on dating apps HATE to hear 🥀
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Anonymous 3w

Men are so weird about it. My closest friend wants an emotional relationship built before a physical one and they are all like you need to at least give me photos to masturbate to I have needs. You don’t “need” her photos for your needs if she doesn’t want to share that yet 😭

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Anonymous 3w

No cause same or I say no sex until we’re serious cause…past trauma (I don’t tell them that) and they say I’m being a tease and holding it over their head

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Anonymous 3w

“Let’s hang out” after we’ve literally only JUST met and said hi to each other…I know what you are🤨

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Anonymous 3w

Also why does everyone try to make sexual before a first date??? it’s like damn what if I want dinner first???? What if mini golf would be our first date instead of groin rubbing in your dorm ?? Maybe Im not risking pregnancy or STDs with some rando that I meet two weeks ago🤨🤨🤨

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Anonymous 3w

I’ce just had bad experiences with guys before and want to wait like 2 weeks of dating before sex. I’m not trying to tease at all

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Anonymous 3w

I mean everyone has their reasons but I feel like 2-3 weeks month is reasonable. Like that to me means you’re thinking more seriously

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Anonymous 3w

You’re really not -biologist

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Anonymous 3w

3 months is reasonable. Many don’t want to have sex until they’re in a serious relationship

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Anonymous 3w

If a guy can’t wait there are plenty of resources online from women who consent to having their body/photos used like that. If my friend doesn’t want to do it she’s under no obligation.

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Anonymous 3w

get out of this fucking group u freak

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