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I’ve always struggled because I don’t know if I was sexually assaulted or not. My ex boyfriend would drive me home from work most nights and all I remember is waking up and his hands were in my pants. He also tried to force me into stuff when I said no.
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That 100% is SA. I know how you feel about not being sure if it’s SA or not. Most of the girls on my water polo team were SAed by a teammate who would grope them. During practice, she pulled on my suit so my whole boob came out (I was just treading water and we weren’t going hard at all). She wouldn’t let go of my suit so I had to kick her hard in the stomach to get her to let go. I still don’t know if it’s enough to be SA. Admin knew about this situation and never did anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m so sorry that happened to you. I would consider that SA or at least attempted SA cause you didn’t want her to touch you like that. Even if it was just tugging on your suit.

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