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Girl Talk 10w
I really am starting to dislike going out with my friends.. we go out and they get compliments and guys asking their numbers but i asked ONE guy for his and was called a fat bitch.. am i in the wrong for not wanting to go out anymore? I just feel so ugly
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Anonymous 10w

This is why I stopped going out with certain friends. And it’s not even because I wasn’t being hit on, I was, but I hated that my friends turned it into going out solely for the goal of getting compliments or whatever. I want to dance and drink and talk to my friends, not think about men’s perception of me the whole time

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Anonymous 10w

No I get you. This isn’t the same but I ended up in a situation last time where a guy was choosing between me and my friend (I didn’t even want him, idk what was happening) and he no hesitation was like “not her (me), the other one” and it still hurt and made me feel ugly and just want to go

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Anonymous 10w

def not wrong but i would encourage u being mean back he called u a fat bitch call his mom a fat bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

What good would that do though? I’d still feel like shit after

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

It hurts so much and i don’t know what to do. I love going out with them but i hate seeing them get hit on and having guys fall for them so hard and i just stand there awkwardly. There was one time where BOTH of them were getting talked to and i just stood there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

No I 100% get you and it sucks and is weird bc I never even want these men but it makes you feel so undesirable. They all come up to my friends and I kinda gaslight myself into saying it’s bc they’re very approachable and fun looking and I’m probably more intimidating looking and maybe it’s not because I’m ugly 😭 but that only half works

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

idk i just don’t like ppl thinking they can speak to ppl any kinds of ways. it’s rude as fuck & they’re not the only ppl ones who can be a dickhead

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

That’s exactly it 😕 I don’t want them or their numbers but it would be nice to be noticed i guess? And i don’t FEEL ugly, like when we go out i feel like i look good until all that happens. I don’t feel like I’m that far behind them looks-wise, but what if im blind to it somehow?

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