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Idk what to do. My bf keeps getting mad at me when I say no and saying pointed “jokes” about how I don’t do it enough. He even mentioned being nice after I say no to test if I’ll say yes because of it. I don’t think he’ll ever understand.
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Anonymous 3w

My ex was like this and it never got better you deserve to be with someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for saying no especially not someone who tries to manipulate you into saying yes after you’ve already said no

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Anonymous 3w

actions speak louder than words, which obviously mean nothing from him since he continues to do it. stop letting someone whos suppose to be a grown man bully you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

That’s so dissapointing.. he’s such a great guy and this is the only big problem we’ve had. He knows my history too it’s just so disappointing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

He might not realize that’s what he’s doing have you talked to him about it? he might be receptive and change

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I did talk to him and he says sorry for his reactions but he keeps blaming me and saying it’s only because I never do anything and he feels rejected

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Is it worth leaving you think? We’ve been dating for so long he just “reached his breaking point”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It doesn't sound like you two are compatible. If he was more understanding then maybe it would work out but instead he's taking it out on you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

yes. if a friend was doing this to you i'm sure you wouldn't stick around if they continued. he's disrespecting tf out of you.

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