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Girl Talk 19h
Does my friend hate me if he says I can sleepover for a night, but not a weekend when I’d be traveling from another state?
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Anonymous 18h

girl I would tell him nvm tbh. if ur my friend there is no difference between 1 and 2 nights.

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Anonymous 18h

I just wouldn’t go ngl 😭 it doesn’t seem like he’s very interested in seeing you

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Anonymous 19h

What’s the timeline here?? Like you get there Saturday and stay the night? And he wouldn’t want you staying Sunday? I feel like that’s reasonable if he has work Monday

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Anonymous 17h

seems like a healthy boundary for him to want to uphold. if he hated u he wouldn't offer 1 night, but there's nothing wrong with him not wanting to host u all weekend. i wouldn't pick a fight or feel less because of it, it's just how he functions best it sounds

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

I was thinking like traveling over on a Friday, do something that day/night together, sleepover. Then Saturday n Sunday, I was just hoping to maybe crash at his if I wanted to do other stuff in area since my family's house is too toxic. -- But I also asked to visit him at college for his last semester and he wouldn't agree at all to it, he just kept dodging it? And I am so confused why

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