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My bf came over to study and hang out. He goes to open his computer & romantically opens it to straight twitter porn. I don’t have an issue with him watching it in general, but we have had issues with him being addicted and him choosing it over me.
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Anonymous 2w

You need to sit down with him and tell him how this makes you feel, if he cannot perform necessary tasks or hang out with you WITHOUT watching porn- he needs to get help. Don’t just mention it in passing- sit down, no distractions and tell him. If he doesn’t acknowledge his problem or refuses help, idk how to help with that other.

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Anonymous 2w

I’m like obviously upset, but I just don’t know how to handle it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I don’t want to break up with him over it. We have been together 3 yrs and everything else is great. I wonder if our sex life just sucks but idk. I literally told him it felt intentional bc this is like the 3rd time I can remember at least that I’ve just seen it on his phone or computer. Like I watch it too but at least don’t show me

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Anonymous replying to -> witchy_salem 2w

He definitely watched it right before he saw me, not during luckily. Even tho he has done that once that ik of. (I was on my period like actually dying of pain). We have just had the convo so many times and he’s so clearly embarrassed by it, yet leaves his tabs open for me to see

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

does he refuse to seek help or is he embarrassed to get help?

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Anonymous replying to -> witchy_salem 2w

It’s a big difference from when we first had an issue with it. He’s made a big effort to cut it out and not watch it nearly as much. I could literally feel the difference in our relationship. I just don’t want him reverting back to that and knowing that he’s doing it and just leaving it there for me to see makes me feel so gross and insecure

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