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My friends make fun of my boyfriend a LOT. To the point where he doesn't like coming over my place. It really bums me out I've tried to ask them to be nicer but they're always kinda gaslighty about it like no what we love him. Just sucks
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Anonymous 3w

ur friends sound pretty mean, why not go over to his place?

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Anonymous 3w

get better friends or a stronger boyfriend. or stand up for him if you care about him. there’s no way in hell my FRIENDS would be making fun of someone i care about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I do go to his place. My friends think it's funny and I think like okay maybe the first time but because he doesn't banter back because he's not close with them like that it becomes pretty one sided just them ragging on him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I have tried to tell them to be nice but they're always kinda literally were like "what I never said that, no we love him he should hang out more" and I'm just like tf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

set boundaries with them. “me and (boyfriend) will not hang out with you all if you can’t be kinder to him.” if they keep doing it stand on that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Yeah he doesn't really ever spend time with them. I've tried but I guess I'll keep trying

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