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This is so strange to me but my ex, who is 19’s new girlfriend who is 23 stalks all my social media and my friends’ and loves to find a reason to bring me up to MY FRIENDS. I am 19. She is a grown woman. Is this weird? Like I don’t even know her.
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Anonymous 3d

I’m 23 and I don’t even want to date a 22 year old let alone a 19 year old 🤢 she’s weird

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Anonymous 2d

Yeah it’s definitely weird of her. Maybe she’s jealous of you?

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Anonymous 3d

okay i get it, and you should block her, but let’s not act like 23 is a huge age difference from 19. like atp it’s less than five years and you’re all adults. you’re also a grown woman. 🤦‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

See like I feel like 23 and 19 is two completely different points of our lives. She’s about to go start her adult life and graduate and I just started school and she instigates everything with me. It feels weird because it’s such high school behavior from a grown adult.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

idk i just turned 21 and im finished with my degree. i was in college at 17. to me when i was 19, i didn’t have an issue dating 22 year olds at all bc we were in the same grade. i don’t think age is an accurate measure of life positions. i even had a bf who was 24 when i was 19 and we got along great. people can act immature or mature at any age. if shes being immature, just block her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

being uncomfortable with a one year age gap is weirder tbh :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

I’m not saying I would judge others for a one year age gap I’m just saying that I personally wouldn’t even date a guy one year younger than me so I REALLY can’t wrap my head around dating a 19 year old as a 23 year old like you can’t even legally go get drinks together 😭

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