YES i’m convinced that the concept of a “body count” evolved as a replacement for virginity once it became less of an expectation for women, both are primarily used to control and shame women for having sex.

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the fact that people make an effort to keep count of people they’ve slept with is so odd to me

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Since YY is being a mess… #4– “Body count” doesn’t mean anything about one’s health. You can have intercourse with many, many people and be perfectly healthy, and you can sleep with one person and catch numerous STDs and STIs. Consent, testing, and transparency in communication are the only things that matter in intercourse. Arbitrary numbers don’t.

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I disagree but more in a sense that people have preferences. I wouldn’t want to be with a man who’s gotten around a lot 🤷‍♀️

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