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i need help. is asking for full undivided attention the bare minimum? my fiance always never looks up from his phone while im talking. i keep shoving it down and forgiving him but now i resent him and i told him this is not how i deserve to be treated.
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Anonymous 5w

FIANCE? girl... leave

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Anonymous 5w

he said hed change and not do it anymore and we live together. today i didnt see him all day and i was looking forward to seeing him and he kept looking at his phone while i was talking. i feel so unloved and unattracted to him but i want the relationship to work but i dont respect him anymore

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Anonymous 5w

I’m sorry girl :( know that you absolutely deserve better treatment and give him an ultimatum. You gotta let him know how you feel

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Anonymous 5w

Your fiance should enjoy spending time with you and not treat you like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

i told him im done with this relationship if i dont see real change

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i just did i told him im sleeping on the couch and no more sex until he changes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

if u have to teach a grown man empathy and beg for him to act right... then wyd? but hey, its ur life

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

true!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

wishing you luck and happiness :) put you first!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

hey so it sounds like he's already showing u he can't make the change. i think it's time to leave. anyone who actually loved u would've started showing up immediately when u brought this up and putting all attention on u when talking. he does not care and will never

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