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Girl Talk 11w
I hate that men are so sexual. Sorry I wanna be dating you+ committed to you before sleeping w you
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Anonymous 11w

Fr. Also I’m a virgin and my first pap smear was excruciatingly painful and I’m absolutely terrified that sex would be just as painful. I wouldn’t want to find out with someone I don’t love and trust. I would HATE to find out that sex is also excruciating with a guy who wouldn’t give a shit and who I would never see again

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Anonymous 11w

don’t apologize for that shit either. men ain’t shit!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

sex can be painful, but it mainly is not. if it’s painful then something is wrong. pap smears are painful for me and i’ve had a lot of sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Tbh ur also not aroused at a pap smear yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

that part^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Yes but I’ve also heard from other women whose first pap smears were extremely painful and sex was the same for them😞 it sounds like it’s different for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

like i said, if sex is painful then something is wrong. don’t let your fear stop you from experiencing something you might enjoy

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