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I’m a first gen and just completed my first year in college. GPA is 2.5. Unsatisfied but I did everything but die literally. Ik my family will equate this to not trying hard enough but I did!! They missed the part where I completed my first year! 💗
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Anonymous 20w

girl, Cs get degrees. you’re doing GREAT!!! i’m so proud of you, even if your family isn’t. if they try to say anything about your GPA not being good enough, remind them that none of them have college GPAs in the first place. you’re the only one to make it this far.

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Anonymous 20w

College is hard! You did it, even if you aren't happy with your results keep pushing through. A degree is important and so is showing up for yourself despite the opinions of anyone else. Good luck ❤️❤️

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Anonymous 20w

This is actually more common than people believe, a lot of people just don’t talk about it. Several of my friends and myself ended our first year with low GPAs. You worked hard and you can come back from this I promise 🙏🙏

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Anonymous 20w

I finished my first year with a 2.3 (I was severely depressed and burnt out) and I’m about to graduate magna cum laude with a 3.75 GPA. You still have time!!

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Anonymous 20w

first gen and family will say you didn’t try hard enough? they didn’t try at all 😭😭 take this win

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Anonymous 20w

not to mention i’m a STEM major ugh 🫩

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Anonymous 20w

Good job!!! Cs do get degrees and on of my professors had said. You tried your best!!! I don’t know you, but I love you and I’m proud of you!!! 🫶🏼

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Anonymous 20w

if college was easy then everyone would be doing it! congrats on completing your first year i hope it’s nothing but up from here!! 🫶🏻🩷

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Anonymous 20w

i’m a first gen student too and dropped out after my first year because i basically flunked out due to depression and personal issues. i’m finally back in school 3 years later and striving to keep my grades up. everyone has their own path and end of the day you will likely still get a good job even if your gpa is a 2.2 or 3.9

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Anonymous 20w

girl I had a 1.6 and I’m currently at a 3.2 and planning to raise it even more.i have immigrant parents and it’s super hard to please them.i think where u are is amazing and the fact that you finished your first year is great and you keep persevering 🥳🥳congratulations

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Anonymous 20w

Also first gen, and you just gotta remind them that even though the gpa may not be what you wanted you still showed up everyday. Make this a motivation to keep improving instead of a way to tear you down!! College is all about learning and growing into a better you, so proud of you

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Anonymous 20w

Hi also first gen here. I completed my first year of college with a 2.5 as well, with some summer classes (retaking), and cutting down on ECs to focus on school more. I made it back up to a 3.5! It’s possible, college is hard, just reach out for help and rmbr what u rlly value during school.

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Anonymous 20w

you’re trailblazing! don’t be too hard on yourself, you tried your best

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Anonymous 20w

So many people come to college and leave during the first year which is ok since college isn’t for everyone, but the fact that you completed your first year is such an accomplishment!! I just finished my junior year and my gpa has never been amazing but all that matters is we get that paper at the end of the

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Anonymous 20w

as a fellow first gen this is soooooo real!!!! tbh just try to be more intentional/ set goals with timelines that you wanna achieve. i think this has helped me but again you completed your first year which is an accomplishment in itself!! not having the guidance as a first gen student does make the experience slightly more difficult! at the end of the day you’re breaking generational curses just by going to college. don’t be too hard on yourself! talk to God and come up with a game plan!🩷🩷

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Anonymous 20w

Congrats!!! I’m also a first gen and and finishing up my jr year:)) I will say for me my first year was the hardest and it got easier from there so I’m so happy for you that you got through your first year!!!! I wish u luck for your bright future!!!!!

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Anonymous 20w

Congrats first year was an adjustment for me too but I used my schools resources and profs offices hours to help me become a better student

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Anonymous 20w

i finished my first semester of my first year with a 1.8 (was severely depressed) ended that year with a 2.9, and am now about to begin my junior year with a 3.5. when there’s a will, there’s a way. you’ve got this!!

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Anonymous 20w

I relate to you sm girl! I’m going to end my freshman year with a 2.0 bc of how I struggled first semester. It’s okay! We’re growing and learning and it’s sm more than just study for classes. We did it

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Anonymous 20w

When I think about my C’s, I think about all the people who didn’t go to college and have jobs higher than my dream job

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Anonymous 20w

Congrats baby 💕💕

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Anonymous 20w

CONGRATS!!! I’m a first gen and just completed my first year too!! We’re breaking the cycle girl, keep it up!!! Always remember that you have it in you to do anything your heart desires my love, you’re gonna do great things.

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Anonymous 20w

So freaking proud of you!! Hey my first semester of college my gpa was about the same. Now I’m in my junior year and I just got put on the deans list. You can make anything happen that you want to happen❤️

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Anonymous 20w

girl tell them!!!! you are first gen meaning none of them heffas went to college or got a degree to their name! put em in they place lol

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Anonymous 20w

So proud of you, hun ❤️ If you ever need rides or anything hmu deadass

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Anonymous 20w

my first year of college i finished with a 2.7, i’m now graduating cum laude!! first year doesn’t make or break, so proud of you for persevering stranger!! 🫶🫶

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Anonymous 20w

i failed my first semester because my family didn’t support me or encourage me at all i hit rock bottom and now my gpa is a 3.5 as a rising senior yet they still bring up my first semester when i tell them about any accomplishment i’ve made or any goal i’ve reached

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Anonymous 20w

You are the thermostat girl don't let them control your moods or though process. You are doing amazing dude they don't know what they are talking about, keep going for you

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Anonymous 20w

I ended my first year with an AWFUL GPA due to burnout and I’m now up to a 3.0 as a junior. You’ll be fine! Completely tune out your family’s opinions because they aren’t the ones doing it!!

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Anonymous 20w

If nobody else is proud of you just know that I am proud of you 🫶

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Anonymous 20w

girl this is still a huge accomplishment!! Uni is not easy and learning to manage your time between classes, homework and everything else can be super hard but here you are still giving it your all! thats all that matters!! Ur only in ur first term 🙂‍↕️ first gen student now, first person in ur fam with a bachelors later 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 20w

I started off like that as well. But as the semesters progressed I managed my studying better and soon I would make either honor or deans list. I am set to graduate with a 3.0+ cumulative gpa.

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Anonymous 20w

My gpa freshman year was 2.7, nobody really prepares you for how hard it truly is to maintain something above a 3.0. Depending on your major. If you’re like super unsatisfied, look into what repeating a course does for your GPA. Thats how I raised mine. Pick out the ones that lowered it and ask your advisor if it would just replace the grades.

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Anonymous 20w

You’re a first gen so they have no room to talk having not even goin to college. Don’t let people who’ve never been in your position make you feel bad love. I was failing at least one class every semester and it took me two extra years bc of my major change but I’ll be graduating next spring. It’s not the end of the world and ik it’s challenging but you got this girl!!

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Anonymous 20w

Fellow first gen who flunked out on my first try and is now part way through a PhD: Your journey is yours. You see all your struggles and know every hurdle. They’ll likely only see success - not what it took to get there. You got this! You can do it!

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Anonymous 20w

So proud of you!!! You’re doing amazing and you finished your first year! If it was easy, everyone would do it! Keep it up 🤍

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Anonymous 20w

I did that too it’s okay. I’m finishing my second year and I’m not doing much better but I’m really trying!!

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Anonymous 20w

Iq exists unfortunatley

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Anonymous 20w

congrats girl! But like low-key you don’t have to tell them your GPA… I don’t ever tell anyone mine

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Anonymous 20w

And as a first gen your fam can literally suck it (maybe not literally but you get the point) you are still doing amazing things for not just them but also yourself and your future!

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Anonymous 20w

first-gen graduating senior here, i'm SO proud of you. don't let this keep you from trying!! you are doing remarkable things just by showing up and doing the damn thing. let this be motivation for later!! good luck hon❤️

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Anonymous 20w

Im so proud of you!! As someone who is estranged from their parents for reasons close to this, life is soo much better when you can be your own cheer leader. Block out their negativity because you just finished your first year of college!!! Freshman year is rough because your still learning to acclimate.

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Anonymous 20w

i love you all and thank you all omg!! 💗

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Anonymous 20w

Luckily you are at the most supportive school ever. Make an appointment with anyone at os3 (they are all amazing) but i recommend joanne goldwater. And if you truley follow their recommendations and the sky is the limit

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Anonymous 20w

You got the degree, that’s a big deal 👏👏 GPA isn’t everything

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Anonymous 20w

Proud of you!!!! College is hard and finishing your first year is impressive!!!

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Anonymous 20w

You’re doing a hard thing you’ve never done before and you did your best! We’re all so proud of you and want you to keep going!💕

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Anonymous 20w

literally congratulations this is a truly amazing accomplishment and you should be so freaking proud!! celebrating you anonymously!!!

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Anonymous 20w

what classes were you possibly taking that gave you a 2.5 💀

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Anonymous 20w

depends on your degree and iq i guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

BIG facts. not even taking college courses in high school can prepare you for what college is actually like. plus, hate to say it, but some professors suck!!! your grades aren’t ALWAYS a reflection of you, sometimes they’re the reflection of your instructors.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

Omg i’m so happy for you!! Congrats 💗💗💖🥳🎉

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20w

YESSS congrats in ADVANCE!! 💖🥳

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 20w

Tysm 💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 20w

Aww ilyt and tysm 🥲🥲 im proud of you too bestie 💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

HAHA this made me LAUGHHH but frrr!! Tysm 💗💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

tysm 💖

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Thank you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 20w

so so proud of you!! we got this 💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 20w

YESSS proud of youuu omg iktr💗 you too!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 20w

they ask unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

don’t feel obligated to answer! Or lie lmao 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

lowk lie to them. what they don’t know won’t kill them (or you)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

how were u able to raise ur gpa by that much?

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 20w

I spent the summer after my freshman year taking care of my mental health and hyping myself up to lock tf in; when classes started, I made sure to be a lot more organized and made a calendar/spreadsheet for all the assignments in all my classes and set reminders to check it at least once daily. It also helped that my school lets us retake at least three classes, so I went ahead and retook three classes that I failed in before and got at A’s

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 20w

Your school might have a similar opportunity for grade replacements so that could be worth looking into

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

ohhh this is good!! ty for letting me know about this

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 20w

you’re so right 💗💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 20w

Love this!! yesss and amen 💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 20w

i will inquire about this thank you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

ooo whats your major??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

also congrats genuinely because as a fellow STEM major ts is TOUGH

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 20w

it was neuroscience but i switched to psych and human development & family science

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 20w

congrats to you omg so proud 💗💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #27 20w

tysmmm💗 proud of you toooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #30 20w

so proud of you omg 💗💗💗

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Anonymous replying to -> #43 20w

good freaking job, i am proud of you 😻😻❤️ keep going and if you need support, im here too 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #46 20w

Just giving an example that it can get better! You got this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

neuroscience is a BEAST 💔 i hope psych treats you better tho, that sounds really cool!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

I just graduated with a 2.5 and my final semester was also a 2.5, which made me laugh. I’m so happy to just be done. I may not have gotten the best grades but I’m happy I stuck it out

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Anonymous replying to -> #44 20w

proud of you 🫶 keep going

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Anonymous replying to -> #46 20w

yay congrats! 💖💖💖

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Anonymous replying to -> #48 20w

yes!! you’re so right 💖🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #47 20w

first off, CONGRATS! 💖 all that matters is that you got your degree iktr

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Anonymous replying to -> #45 20w

they’re downvoting but you’re right 😭 idk about iq but degree definitely does, especially if you’re trying to get into any program

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Anonymous replying to -> #48 20w

how do yk their school??

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

i took ALL science and math courses both semesters that’s why

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Anonymous replying to -> #50 20w

yes!! 💗 it’s definitely a transition that everyone downplays

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

i did too with one pre calc and one history class 😭 3.25 gpa though. just surprising that someone can have a 2.5 the first year

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

I had a worse gpa and honestly there’s a lot more factors that can play into struggling at college. It’s really common actually and if you don’t believe me just read thru these comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #50 20w

i did read through the comments, it’s still surprising to me that you can finish a year with a gpa so low. you’d need a C in every class to get a 2.5

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

HIGHLY inaccurate but ok!! since u know everything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

a 2.5 gpa is an average of C’s, usually 75%-79%. if you had less than a C, which most programs won’t allow, then you can maybe have a B in there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

you can google it btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

Why are you acting like people can’t possibly get grades lower than a C?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

so like… i never did that 💀 that’s just the AVERAGE and again most programs won’t allow less than a C

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

Yeah, some, not all, keyword here, and you kinda did imply that

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

i’ve never seen any program that allowed less than a 3.0 and definitely never seen any that allowed less than a C in the grade book

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

Just because you’ve never seen it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist tf 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

i said most because if i say “all” some bum is gonna come in here saying his degree in speaking farts allowed a 2.0

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

ok then tell me what program allows people in with D’s, F’s, and a 2.5 gpa

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

Girl why the fuck would I know exactly what programs at which colleges allow it? All I basically said is that maybe that’s a sweeping generalization

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

you wanna be a know it all, tell me which programs

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

You’re the one being a know-it-all assuming everywhere’s exactly the same let’s be so fr

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 20w

i never assumed everyone’s the same 😭😭what are you on about

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

good for you for your all A’s and not failing or whatever, no one cares. hating is sooo unnecessary and i hope u heal ❤️

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Anonymous 20w

nigga what

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

Nobody actually gaf about your IQ. And GPA only starts to matter if you don’t bother to build a portfolio. Many places will look past your GPA if you have plenty of experience.

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

Shocking that someone who is probably homesick and trying to adjust to harder courseload wouldn’t have a 3.2 GPA. Truly shocking

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 20w

A 2.5 gpa isn’t an accurate measure of what someone got in all of their classes for that year. U have to look at units per class and weighting may vary between colleges. I got a 2.5 and I failed 1 class and got a C in another w A’s in the rest. Also in being a first year, gpa would fluctuate like crazy bc there’s not much else to avg or buff bad grades out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 19w

i was homesick too and it was my first year lmao please

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

clearly you care. don’t need to heal either lol i’m not the one with a 2.5 gpa

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Anonymous replying to -> #49 19w

womp WOMPPPP

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