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Any advice on telling an online guy friend (who you’ve known for genuinely like a week) you are not into him at all when he knew from the get go that he was gonna try and pursue you romantically? I am not used to this kinda thing and am probs aro I’m😬🫠
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Anonymous 1d

Also I forgot to mention he is in the military and was in a relationship a month or two ago. Idk if it’s that relevant but for me I don’t wanna date someone in the army really :/

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Anonymous 1d

Id just constantly remind him that we’re friends so he doesn’t even get the courage to try it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’ll try cuz he calls me shit like “cutie” and it makes me cringe so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I’d just say you’re not into him in any way other than platonically and encourage him to look elsewhere for that. Also, just lmk you’re not comfortable with him calling you cutie and flirting, set that boundary!!

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