
he found out some guy he hates is doing a competition he’s in and he’s mad about it so he’s taking forever which I get bc he’s mad but also. bedtime is 10. we’re still at the gym and it’s a 20 min drive home. we haven’t made dinner yet. I just wanted to paint and he promised me I’d have time to paint and get to bed by 10 when we left :(
Just tell him. Men are kinda one focused sometimes and they don’t realize how much the little stuff matters to us. We are just a lot more emotional, they aren’t. I doubt it was intentional and it’s not a huge deal to bring up. No need to have anxiety, just be like “hey I’m just a little disappointed that you didn’t keep your word. I understand why you wanted to stay longer but it made me feel bad”
Honestly it seems like you just need to tell him no, I had this issue with my fiance and I finally snapped at him over how his desire for sex was effecting other things in our life's and that I was just going along with his desires (we are no longer together there as a root to that issue) but you gotta stand up for what you want bc you wouldn't go with that behavior from a man you had been dating for 2 months don't accept it from him now