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tiny vent but yesterday I didn’t rly feel like having sex bc I wanted to go to our local game store but I did anyway bc my fiancé wanted to super bad and he promised today we’d finish gym early so I could do something I wanted but now we are so late :(((
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Anonymous 5w

You sure you wanna marry this guy???

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Anonymous 5w

This is really lame, he can’t even own up to his promises, also u shouldn’t have sex if you don’t want to- he can live without it!!

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Anonymous 5w

he found out some guy he hates is doing a competition he’s in and he’s mad about it so he’s taking forever which I get bc he’s mad but also. bedtime is 10. we’re still at the gym and it’s a 20 min drive home. we haven’t made dinner yet. I just wanted to paint and he promised me I’d have time to paint and get to bed by 10 when we left :(

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Anonymous 5w

I’ve had somewhat similar situations with my husband. It isn’t intentional, men are just forgetful lol

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Anonymous 5w

Just tell him. Men are kinda one focused sometimes and they don’t realize how much the little stuff matters to us. We are just a lot more emotional, they aren’t. I doubt it was intentional and it’s not a huge deal to bring up. No need to have anxiety, just be like “hey I’m just a little disappointed that you didn’t keep your word. I understand why you wanted to stay longer but it made me feel bad”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Honestly it seems like you just need to tell him no, I had this issue with my fiance and I finally snapped at him over how his desire for sex was effecting other things in our life's and that I was just going along with his desires (we are no longer together there as a root to that issue) but you gotta stand up for what you want bc you wouldn't go with that behavior from a man you had been dating for 2 months don't accept it from him now

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I did! We worked it out and he apologized :) communication is so important

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