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 I hate how ppl show their husbands being assholes complaining then turn around “you can’t judge our relationship on a 30 second video” STFU THEN! WHY DO I HAVE TO HEAR ABOUT UR FUCKING MAN CHILD IF U AREN’T GOING TO BE PROACTIVE ABOUT IT!!!
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Anonymous 3w

That or they post something that unintentionally shows that the husband is an asshole and then get mad that everyone is calling it out 😭 like the internet is going to tell you when your husband’s a red flag babes

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Anonymous 3w

I’ve spent way too much time talking with women in abusive relationships to ever judge things like that. Having people tell you that you need to leave your husband/boyfriend off of one instance, they will defend their partner because they feel attacked, like their intelligence of picking a partner, and also they themselves would never leave off of one wrong thing

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Anonymous 3w

this 😭

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Anonymous 3w

“He’s really sweet when you get to know him!”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Exactly! And it’s like they don’t want to divorce him bc they rather just be married. Especially if they are trying to make content. Also I knew women who literally married just to flash a ring on their finger

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Oh that’s not…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

That’s not what i meant at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

They’re hating and I don’t get why that’s literally what they’re like

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

No I’m not talking about abusive men I’m taking about like a guy leaving a mess around the house every day, wife makes a video complaining, we say “hey he’s a fucking child” and they’re like “you can’t base a person off of 30 seconds” well that was a shitty ass 30 seconds Rebecca

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Nah this is true bc I’ve seen women wit bruises still stick up for those losers

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Yes they do, most of them do. The whole point why people stay in shitty and/or abusive relationships is because they feel like their is no better option AND they have really low self esteem and truly believe this is the best they could get and it’s all they are worth. They love that person and no one wants to believe that the person they love and rely on is actually horrible and doesn’t love them so they keep excusing it and defending it

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

If you don’t have the patience to deal with it, that’s fine just scroll, but if you want to help you have to ask her questions about repeated behaviors of his and what’s going on with it. They will defend their partner still, but it’s not to argue with you it’s just their own doubts because they are trying to find a reason to stay because staying is safe and comfortable (I say safe as in predictable, not as in no harm)

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 3w

I agree with you fully. On a spiritual level I understand this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Hey, so I don’t really enjoy being unexpectedly exposed to images of battered women, especially when you’re making a joke out of it and essentially victim blaming

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