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Girl Talk 12w
Soo is it valid to break up w/ my bf if I go my whole pregnancy without him proposing to me or? Like I can’t comprehend having a child w/ someone but refusing or delaying marriage. Especially when he has initiated conversation about it before me. Lmk!
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Anonymous 12w

Obviously everyone has their own views on it but I personally would not stay w a man who wouldn’t put a ring on it while I was growing&carrying his child. You’re already pregnant with his kid, so why is he scared to propose to ‘officially’ show his loyalty and support for you and your family forever? But also, I put a lot of weight on marriage from how I grew up. Perhaps there’s a reason he’s scared of committing rn and plans to support you & your child w/out a ring. I would have a mature convo

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Anonymous 12w

girl he should’ve proposed to you the same day u found out😐

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Anonymous 12w

i'd talk about it before making a decision like that. have yall not talked at all about what yalls futures look like now that you'll be sharing a whole human being together?

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Anonymous 12w

honestly i would have gotten an abortion if the father of my child didn’t want to marry me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

with him about it. Best of luck throughout the rest of your pregnancy, please keep you & baby healthy, and make sure you stay mentally healthy as well ♥️ !!! You got this girl !!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Yes or maybe he’s scared of u thinking he’s only marrying u bc ur pregnant or that u want to have a wedding after ur baby bump is gone. I think best way to find out is to talk to him and tell him your concerns and what u want. Good communication is the only way marriage would work in the first place so it could also be a test on how he reacts to u trying to communicate

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Yes like #2 said communication is above ALL ELSE. I would definitely just speak with him about it in a calm and mature convo with him, communication is key. I hope you find a good answer and it puts your mind at ease a little!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

not a good solution to the problem but you do you

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

and that's a valid choice for u, but kind of irrelevant to what's being asked here girl

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Anonymous 12w

Ya I know but some people want a huge wedding, I personally don’t want a wedding. I was just saying there are so many possibilities so no way of knowing until u ask

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

wait maybe i misread it then, to me it sounded like she was still early on and she was asking if it would be bad to break up in the future if they don’t get married

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