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Is it just me or now that I’m in a relationship….I’m getting hella scared of sex and accidental pregnancy?
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Anonymous 10w

i take pregnancy tests every few months when i'm having regular sex since i don't get my period monthly

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Anonymous 10w

They sell cheap pregnancy tests at dollar tree. They’re just as accurate as the expensive ones

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Anonymous 10w

That’s normal and it means it’s time to reevaluate your pregnancy prevention plan to something you’re actually comfortable with. What are you using now and what methods have you considered adding?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Ohh i see the thing is that my bf is also like u shouldn’t take bc just cause a lotta side effects and idk what to do now yk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

girl it's ur body, if you'd feel calmer on bc then there's nothing wrong with being on it. myself and everyone else i knw has zero side effects from bc. the beauty of doing the pill is also that if u DO have weird side effects, u can switch to a different one.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Ohh ik trustt im just unsure which bc cause idk yet but do yall just use pills or iuds and nexplanon?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I’m on nexplanon and have been since 2020

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Did u scar marks due to removal?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yes. But I got it removed and reimplemented a couple months ago

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Thats so helpful im not jk😭 Thank u soo muchh!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i've been using the pill for almost a decade now with no issues

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i highly recommend the ring. i switched from the patch bc i was reacting to the adhesive, but its low stress low effort. you put it in 7 days after you removed your last, and let it chill up there for 3 week, then remove and repeat

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

No severe weight gains or other things..?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Ooo i read abt the ring too, seems nice but u gotta remove it to get periods right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i’ve been on the pill to help with my periods for almost 3 years and i haven’t experienced much side effects! i had to change which pill after a year for unrelated reasons, and the two pills were slightly different (1st one i had no period at all, 2nd one i still get it but less flow and pain than without). i’m on a combo pill so it’s less sensitive to what time i take it every day, though i haven’t had unprotected sex so i would probably be more strict if i started to. talk to ur dr if u can!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Ohh i see thank u soo muchh!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

nope. i had a pill make me dryer than normal for sex, but i just switched pills and it went back to normal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

yes, but like, you get confirmation that you aren’t pregnant, and i mean, just put a calendar reminder

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ur bf can’t decide what u wanna do to keep urself safe- honestly if hes so scared abt side effects he should get a vasectomy and wear condoms every time he hits it

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