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idk if this is relatable but i can’t fully tell what is really me or just a phase 😭 for example; i want a tattoo and was never opposed but i never had a clear idea, i finally have one and im ready to get it but my loved ones say it’s so unlike me
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Anonymous 10w

fuck em. only YOU know whats "like you" , not anyone else. because you're the only one living YOUR life. i bet you'll rock that tattoo. best of luck ❤️

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Anonymous 10w

then i explain the idea and they’re like “oh okay cool!” but what i’m getting at is in the last year or so there’s been many instances of me catching ppl by surprise with changes but i genuinely describe the last 2 yrs of my life as me finally breaking out of my shell, and living life playing sports, going to random events, etc, i think my job helped me suddenly be more extroverted and i loveeee these changes but yeah it does seem like im suddenly someone else

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Anonymous 10w

Don’t let your loved ones tell you what’s like you and what isn’t. They don’t get to decide, only you do

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Anonymous 10w

it’s completely normal and arguably good to change over time! especially in our college years and into our 20s, we’re being exposed to new things all of the time and finding what we like. i started watching formula 1 racing recently, which is very out of left field for me and some ppl were confused but it’s fun to me and im making new friends that way! and im want to start playing volleyball just for fun once im back at school, and i’ve never been a sports person. i ❤️ new things

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Anonymous 10w

Dont let other people make choices about what you do with your body. How do they know if its unlike you when theyre not you? Youre you and if you like it then its like you!

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Anonymous 10w

People are so quick to put each other into boxes with labels when in reality we have so much more nuance Get that tattoo!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Also whats ur idea?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

all of those things are to say that fucking around and finding new interests is normal and good! it sounds like it’s improving ur life, i see no problem with change as long as ur safe :)

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