Girl Talk on Sidechat | is it valid for me to get annoyed/cut off my best friend for keep going back to her ex of 6 years (they’ve been on and off for 6 years) and everytime she tells me she blocked him she goes back to him in less than a week. Am I too immersed into this?

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is it valid for me to get annoyed/cut off my best friend for keep going back to her ex of 6 years (they’ve been on and off for 6 years) and everytime she tells me she blocked him she goes back to him in less than a week. Am I too immersed into this?

Anonymous 1d

Just don't insert yourself in her relationship and show no interest. The only person she's hurting is herself and you've tried your best. You don't need to cut her off unless it's seriously affecting your relationship with her

Anonymous 1d

There’s so much more to this but please let me know.

Anonymous 1d

i feel u, literally just had a best friend of 9 years breakup a week ago over a guy. these things can definitely get complicated because you love and care for them so much and just want the best for them. then they go and do these things that go against the things they say they want and you just lose that respect you have for them. in my situation she would get pissed off at me for telling her the truth because it made her uncomfortable and she didn’t want to face it

Anonymous 1d

oh girl get out of tht lease nowwww

Anonymous

#1 1d

i can’t not show interest cause i’m the only person she comes to talk abt the things he’s done once again. we’re literally living in a house together next year with our other bsf but we share a bathroom. i genuinely can’t share a bathroom with HIM too and ive told her that. The reason i get so upset and disappointed is cause she keeps promising us that she won’t go back to him or that she actually blocked him but she lies to us until i ask who she’s with out of curiosity

Anonymous

#1 1d

like don’t promise us these things if you can’t actually carry them out. i’m slowly losing respect for her cause she can’t fucking stand up. she said that she has to keep going until she can’t anymore but then what’s the limit?! it’s alr been 6 years and he’s hurt her more times than i can count. how much more does she need to get hurt by him to realize she needs to leave. i definitely am too immersed cause she tells me EVERYTHING.

Anonymous

#2 1d

it came to a point where she was disrespectful to me too many times and i decided that no matter how much i love her, im not going to tolerate her talking to me like that because i would never talk to her like that. there’s definitely a very fine line between staying out of it and voicing your opinion

Anonymous

#2 1d

but for my friend she knows she’s in the “wrong” and actually apologized for keep going back to him. she just said that she needs to keep going back to him until she can’t anymore…

Anonymous

OP 1d

ohh i gotcha that’s good she apologizes😭 that’s definitely tricky because of course you want the best for her and this is clearly NOT the best for her and that’s really frustrating to just watch. she seems like a reasonable gal if she’s apologizing, maybe you could say you want to take a step back from the boy talk w her and explain to her why