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I made a post that a 21 y/o dating an 18/19 y/o is creepy and someone is dying on the hill of defending this 😭 like yes a person at 21 should stay away from someone who’s fresh out of hs/has only been an adult for a year
15 upvotes, 45 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "I made a post that a 21 y/o dating an 18/19 y/o is creepy and someone is dying on the hill of defending this 😭 like yes a person at 21 should stay away from someone who’s fresh out of hs/has only been an adult for a year"
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Anonymous 20h

So who are we arguing with in the comments cause I’m nosy but I got the person blocked so I can’t see nothing

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Anonymous 17h

i’m 21 (a senior) and an 18 year old would be a freshman and yuck absolutely not they are too young

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Anonymous 21h

I’m 22, my bf is 20 and we’ve been dating 4 years, it’s not this big of a deal💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Girl you is a creep, 18 and 16 is not the move. That’s senior and a sophomore, an adult and someone just learning how to drive

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

He smarter than me and we had full support from our friend group who actually knew us🤷🏼‍♀️ idk what to tell u, what u want me to do break up cuz of someone on yikyak?😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Nah, but that’s creepy. I don’t think someone who’s going after people who just got a license as an adult would listen to anyone.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

I wasn’t “going after people” dumbass. He was my friend and we developed feelings, big whoop get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Me and my sister have the same age gap yall do, and it is creepy. I was 16 with an 18 y/o man and it was creepy. 16 and 18 is creepy. I’ll be incredibly kind and give you the benefit of the doubt here because I don’t know you nor your circumstances, but you’re the exception not the rule. And I still think it’s creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

You’re also 22 right now, you’re telling me at 21 you would’ve dated an 18 y/o? That was my original point of the post.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

U realize siblings can be a year apart correct? Most peoples age gaps are even bigger.. which is actually creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

Sorry ur ex was creepy? Idk what to tell u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

..yes?? But me and my sister are literally the same age gap as you and your bf. And it’s not the age gap it’s the specific ages. 22 and 20 is a lot less creepy than 18 and 16.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

And we are 22 and 20 now, what’s the issue?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

My point is MOST cases 18 and 16 is creepy, which is why I conceded you’re the exception not the rule. Even though I still find the idea of being attracted to someone who’s 16 creepy af. If it’s a situation where you’re the eldest of your class and he’s the baby, so you were a senior and junior that makes more sense and is less creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Because you started dating at 16 and 18 😭?? Like 55 and 45 isn’t that big of a deal imo, but if they started dating 25 years ago it started as a creepy age gap

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

U don’t think we had a whole conversation about this before we dated? I get it, but we’re older now and it doesn’t matter

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

I feel like you have to be ragebaiting here man. You’re intentionally picking and choosing responses. I’ve literally repeated that I’ll concede your relationship may be an exception but it doesn’t generally derail my point that in most cases 18 and 16 is a creepy age gap because of the giant gap in maturity and life stages. You also kinda missed the original point of my post which is that someone who’s 21 shouldn’t be with someone who’s 18.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

And I said I get it, so u didn’t have to say all that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Girl you’ve missed every other point I made I don’t exactly have confidence in you. When I pointed out that me and my sister had the same age gap so I know how different 18 and 16 are, you said siblings can have a one year age gap which had nothing to do with what I said. When I said it’s not the age gap but rather the age in which you started dating you said that you are 20 and 22 though so it doesn’t matter, entirely missing the fact WHEN you started dating is what makes it creepy.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

You also entirely missed the point of my post that someone who’s 21 shouldn’t be going after someone who’s 18. You weren’t 21 going after an 18 y/o, there was no reason to out your morally dubious ass relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

girl go take a nap😭😭 u wasting ur words

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

I can tell cause clearly you can’t read em lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I read it perfectly you just keep going on and on and on

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Uhuh. So you just like, make no sense for fun?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Again proving you don’t read anything. Go about 6 comments up and reread and I point out the fact your responses made no sense to what I was saying half the time.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

why are you still replying

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Idk why was you 18 messing with 16 y/os

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Idk why you give a shit😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Because..you responded to my post? Where I’m calling out the weird defense of weird age gaps? And you felt the need to share your weird age gap and defend it?? You could’ve just not done that girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

I got u get ready for screen shots 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h
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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

Oh teaaaa thank you bookie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

The whole friend group weird asl cause what do you mean you’re accepting your 18 year old friend whose about to go to college or in college dating a kid that’s probably/nearly a freshman

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

No actually, and they fully missed my point of saying that I was the 16 y/o dating the 18 y/o who was in our friend group and ofc my friends thought it was cool, we were all 16 and didn’t see how immature we are 😭 they def know they a creep cuz what even is the appeal in being in college while your bf can’t even drive no where yet lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I actually can’t believe we live in a world where people who are considered adults don’t think that’s wrong, absolutely mind boggling

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

I know. Like an 18 y/o is not the most mature person in the world which is why 21 and 18 is creepy, but an 18 y/o does know better than to date someone who’s 16 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

ur still going on holy shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

How you gonna get mad at me for commenting on my post girl bye

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