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hey so i broke up with my bf 2 and a half weeks ago and my friend gave her coworker my number bc she thought he would be perfect for me. i’ve been talking to him and he knows my situation and has been super respectful. am i horrible for moving on so fast?
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Anonymous 1d

also i will say i told him im not trying to rush anything, but also we texted a lot yesterday so i feel weird about it all.

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Anonymous 1d

No as long as the new guy is bringing you back some joy and you’re fully over the last guy then you’re good

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Anonymous 20h

You’re not. You’re human and you go at a pace that feels right to you. Everyone’s different and everyone will give their opinion but if it makes sense to you then fuck them. I met my fiancé 2 weeks after breaking up with a semi serious relationship of 11 months. I was more hurt that I wasted my exs time and hurt him because he was a good person we just didn’t want the same thing and I didn’t wanna waste any more of our time. At that point I still cared but I didn’t love my ex anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Nah you’re good I think, if things are definitely done with the first guy then you’re all good

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

And once I knew I didn’t have any romantic feelings for my ex anymore I started to branch out and just try to meet new people and then I met my fiancé. He also got out of a relationship 3 weeks before we met and they broke up essentially over the same thing. We gave each other time to warm up to each other emotionally instead of diving to the deep end. I’m not saying this guy could be your future husband but don’t dwell what’s now in the past and do what feels right for you now and your future

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