Anonymous #5 24w

Imagine being so worried and so bothered 1 you don’t even really care. Let’s start there. You can keep the fakeness to yourself but imagine being bothered by somebody else’s body. It is giving you a miserable life. You have nothing else to do with your life, and you’re unhappy with yourself, so you want others to be unhappy like you.

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Anonymous #5 24w

Must suck to live in misery. I can’t relate because I mind my business and my body.

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Anonymous #5 24w

Trust me, no one’s putting themselves in harm’s way to be fat like they put themselves in harm’s way to be skinny..

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Anonymous OP 24w

#stay fat

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Anonymous #2 24w

Eating disorders work in both ways and actually BED is far more common than anorexia. I don’t necessarily agree with what #5 said but this just isn’t true

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Anonymous #5 24w

Then have this same mindset with Ariana grande or mind your business

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Anonymous #6 24w

It may be more common but anorexia has a higher mortality rate and has devastating consequences to the person with the disorder. I know you’re gonna say “so does BED” but its ignorant to try and word your statements to downplay anorexia’s seriousness and dangerousness

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Anonymous #9 24w

They’re also acting like ppl intentionally get BEDs to get fat when that’s just not a thing bc they usually get BED from trying to lose weight (except for the extreme outliers like feeders or something but it is not a cultural phenomenon like restricting to be thin is)

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Anonymous #9 24w

I’m not trying to downplay anorexia I’m just pointing out to say people don’t deteriorate their health to be fat is simply incorrect and ignorant. They’re the one who was downplaying BED is other unhealthy situations that lead to excess weight gain

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Anonymous #2 24w

You’d be surprised. Similar to anorexia sometimes people will intentionally eat more to gain weight and alter their appearance due to trauma. A common example I’ve heard for high AN and BED is “if I lost/gained enough weight I’d stop being attractive and it’d protect me” from victims of SA. Things aren’t always black and white. But yes I agree it isn’t as wide spread as restricting especially now but I still think saying basically no one is unhealthily fat like they’re unhealthily thin is wrong

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Anonymous #6 24w

It’s an extreme outlier, it’s not a cultural phenomenon and ppl are wayyyyy more likely to develop BED trying to lose weight than intentionally trying to be fat. It’s not comparable at all to the intense pressure to starve yourself to be thin. I’m not downplaying BED whatsoever, I have it and it’s horrible? I got it trying to lose weight, as most ppl do… I have never met anyone who intentionally wanted to be fat but just about every woman I know has restricted to lose weight…

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Anonymous #6 24w

I never said ppl aren’t “unhealthily fat” I was saying hardly any one is INTENTIONALLY fat like ppl intentionally want to restrict to be thin. Except for extreme outliers. There are going to be rare exceptions in every case. It’s not comparable at all to the insane pressure to lose weight and be thin in our society and THAT’S why fatphobia is so dangerous

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Anonymous #6 24w

Also reminder that 5 said fat ppl stink bc we don’t wash our rolls. They’re being fatphobic like most ppl who concern troll about our health, they’re not genuinely concerned

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