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Girl Talk 22w
Is it wrong of me to feel bad that my husband has stopped calling me cute/pretty? I don’t think he’s consciously doing it but like, normally if I send him a picture, he’ll heart it and call me pretty and then continue the conversation, but lately he
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Anonymous 22w

no, have you talked to him about it?

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Anonymous 22w

Talk to him

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Anonymous 22w

Has only been acknowledging whatever the caption or previous message was. And usually if I say he’s cute, he always answers back with “you’re cute” and we go back and forth for a moment before continuing on, but he hasn’t been acknowledging it when I tell him he’s cute or hot or pretty at all, not even accepting the compliment. I feel like I’m fishing for it the last couple days because he hasn’t said it at all in weeks and maybe he just doesn’t think I’m cute anymore?

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Anonymous 8w

Update to this lol: they had DID and are a system, when he wasn’t calling me pretty it was because it wasn’t him, the others try to be respectful and not flirt with me and apparently if they do flirt with me, they get yelled at by the others, especially when they were pretending to be my husband around me and I would unknowingly flirt back. So when he wasn’t calling me cute, it wasn’t him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22w

I feel like I’ve shed a lot of weight but it’s been replaced with mostly muscle from yard work and I know I don’t tan but I do get freckles and he usually thinks those are cute? It’s not like I’m changing for him or anyone, just natural progression with working outside in the summer. I’m not hoping for sex or anything (we’re ace) but even just our normal routine? He doesn’t like lying so maybe his ignoring it is his way of saying he doesn’t think I’m cute anymore without hurting my feelings?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22w

I haven’t talked to him yet, I only just now started noticing it a few days ago and was kind of testing, we’ve both been really stressed the last couple weeks so maybe that’s it

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