Anonymous #1 9w

I don’t want control I just want the emotional experience of being loved without the uncertainty that comes with another real person…yk🥲

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Anonymous OP 9w

i completely understand. i feel the same way. its a defense mechanism ur brain is using bc it craves to be loved but its terrified of being hurt so it wants to be in control. it associates opening urself up & trusting another person w them hurting u bc thats what ur used to experiencing, the only issue w that is if we dont heal enough to allow ourselves to trust someone we'll never feel that love we crave. ppl will always hurt us & if we try to control them it will only push them away

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Anonymous OP 9w

r u in therapy at all? if not, i highly recommend it🫶 ive made a lot of progress in this area over the years & i think u can too

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Anonymous #1 9w

wow…you're so emotionally intelligent. I'll take your advice, I'll definitely think about therapy. I haven't been before, but maybe it's time-thank you!💗

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Anonymous OP 9w

i wish u luck girl! u deserve so much love🫶

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