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i have 3 housemates and i have no clue how to get 1 to actually help around the house. we’ve done group meetings, 1-1 convos, 1-1 text and group text and she genuinely doesn’t care. it’s to the point where we’re quite literally sick from her not cleaning
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Anonymous 2w

like there’s so much mold in the bathroom because we were trying to get her to take her turn to clean and she just never did. then she’s repeatedly lied and said she did something when we have multiple ways to prove she didn’t. it’s to the point of a health and safety concern and she couldn’t care less about anyone but herself UGH

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

i cleaned the br today and literally had an allergic reaction because i have a mast cell disorder and reacted to the dust and mold. i NEVER ask anything extra of my roommates in regards to my condition(bc my health is my responsibility), and know that it’s a non issue as long as people actually take part in cleaning house and cleaning up after themselves. i feel like that’s not that big of an ask, and at this point it’s an active choice to do/not do things they know will make me sick.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

sorry besties i needed a vent

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