Anonymous #1 1d

There USED to be requirements on potty training for certain age groups and she’s FAR past that. The little boy, well that’s smth you have to intentionally ignore. He will learn eventually. Sadly he won’t learn to separate the behavior at home, clearly. I had a kid once, mind you, infant-1yr room. He COULD NOT be put down. Clear he was held ALL day at home. Not okay for development at all.

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Anonymous OP 1d

He’s start throwing his food if someone doesn’t at least sit with him 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous #1 1d

Oop well no more food then, he threw it all! Just like how I treated my sped kids, or my nephew who’s 11 months. I guess we are done! They will learn they will eat. It’s intentional choices we have to make. WITH IN REASON.. I don’t let them starve or eat anything off the floor. Just learned behaviors especially at 4/5 years old.

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Anonymous OP 1d

I agree especially since I’m a psych major that will eventually specialize in behavioral psych I try to have them unlearn certain behaviors but there’s only so much I can do when the parents don’t even parent one time the little boy told me to shut (I don’t necessarily care but in my daycare language like that isn’t allowed bc then they all start saying it) I told him I’m gonna call his dad he said okay call him …. If someone said that they were gonna call my mom I would shut myself

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Anonymous OP 21h

All I’m saying is people got freaky during the pandemic, had kids and were NOT ready for them and it’s showing

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Anonymous #1 19h

i really hope that’s just cause she wasn’t potty trained and not a sign of CSA :(

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Anonymous #4 19h

I don’t think it is. Sometimes I think she does it on purpose bc she’ll stand right in front of the bathroom and poop herself. She also doesn’t know how to wipe which I feel is wild for a 5 yr old to not be able to wipe yet you don’t have her in diapers.

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Anonymous #1 19h

they’re probably trying the method of just letting them poop themselves to learn which if they don’t learn in a day you gotta redirect. that’s awful regardless, she could get a bad infection and that’s so unsafe for girls espescially.

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Anonymous #4 19h

Exactly!!! My thing is why adopt kids if you’re not going to properly take care of them? Both of the kids have behavioral issues. The little girl has kicked me in the jaw multiple times, she even broke my necklace. The little boy screams and cries every time he doesn’t get his way and he just starts hitting people. People have to start teaching their kids to emotionally regulate themselves before it gets too bad.

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Anonymous #1 14h

In retrospect, I would look into child neglect and see if your director can agree on it and make a call.

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