Anonymous #1 1w

People who do that are so irritating I’m saying this as someone whose never had a boyfriend. People do it so much that they assume everyone who’s single is bitter or hates couples which is not true.

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Anonymous #2 1w

and i don’t disagree with you at all! just putting this out there

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Anonymous #2 1w

That’s true! I think the core of this is just being male centered. I think regardless of your relationship status you need to have an identity outside of dating/having a partner/sex. Being well rounded is very important and I think a lot of people are missing that. That’s why it’s so all or nothing

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Anonymous OP 1w

YES. male centered women are the worst esp when that’s all they talk about and they end up ditching you for a man 😭

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yes they’re just as bad too. I’ve had to limit my interactions with both chronically single ppl who are miserable about it or male centered women who don’t have an identity outside of their partner. They’re both a headache to be around

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Anonymous OP 1w

and then you get the “i’m so ugly no man will ever want me” well! idk what you want me to say

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’ve had friends like this and they constantly want reassurance and then when you give it to them they’re still upset bc they don’t inherently believe their valuable by virtue of being a human so idk what tell to them either

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Anonymous #2 1w

These same people don’t listen to advice either and get hurt because they just want a man

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Anonymous #1 1w

Sometimes you gotta leave them where they’re at. I’ve gotten real strict about talking about men with them bc I refuse to entertain conversations if they’re not gonna do anything to change their situation.

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