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Getting your hair cut way shorter than what you asked for while still being insecure about your face is not for the weak 😭 my baby face is only exaggerated, I thought short hair would make me look OLDER not younger. And heavy makeup only helps so much
6 upvotes, 8 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "Getting your hair cut way shorter than what you asked for while still being insecure about your face is not for the weak 😭 my baby face is only exaggerated, I thought short hair would make me look OLDER not younger. And heavy makeup only helps so much"
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Anonymous 2w

Yeah I did a cut of my split ends and I’m not liking the look right now. Feels like my face looks chubbier + my hair looks like an odd length between a shoulder length and a bob (and not in the elegant way)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Mine is even shorter like a shaggy pixie and ppl just say I look “cute”. I’ve seen other girls with the same haircut as me and I think they look cool and edgy, but not me unfortunately… I just look “cutesy” 🤢 I’m 24 f*cking years old when will I be seen as an adult?? (Also being 5’2” does NOT help my case) Well… I’m probably not going to even get it trimmed or anything for like a year. I would just get a wig but those are always either too expensive or just so cheap you can tell it’s fake

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Have you thought about looking into new aesthetics or styles that may fit your body type or facial structure? Anyone can wear any style, but if you want a certain look/vibe it can be easier to tell if look into your style archetype. I get the feeling young sometimes but I think finding the style I feel most confident in has helped me feel more like a functioning adult.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I know regular trims would help it look healthier and maybe even grow faster but I’m just so f*cking done with everything. Maybe by summertime next year I’ll get a trim depending on how bad the split ends are. But like I said I’m just so fed up with everything, genuinely like f*ck my life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

On the up side hopefully you’ll look younger for longer. Wouldn’t it be nice for people to think you look 30 when you’re 45?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yeah, I’ve tried different styles even like dressing a little older, and I guess it helps a little but only so much I think. I feel like I still have a lot to figure out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

When I’d prioritize what makes you feel confident/comfortable instead of just older. I like a business casual look to feel my most confident, but there are some outfits that make me look like I’m costume dressing as a corporate attorney in the ugly way. So like, you know yourself best on what looks good and doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

No, I highly doubt I’ll even appreciate it when I get older, in fact I’m kinda dreading it. I hate when ppl make a big deal out of it, it actually makes me so uncomfortable like I want to disappear

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