Girl Talk on Sidechat | if he keeps saying he’s gonna call but he never calls does that mean he’s losing interest? he keeps saying he’s stressed tired etc and i told him idc if we don’t talk i just want to gts otp and he still keeps promising he’ll call me “in a min” and doesn’t

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Girl Talk 1d

if he keeps saying he’s gonna call but he never calls does that mean he’s losing interest? he keeps saying he’s stressed tired etc and i told him idc if we don’t talk i just want to gts otp and he still keeps promising he’ll call me “in a min” and doesn’t

Anonymous 1d

it means his words mean absolutely nothing and ur not a priority, he's breadcrumbing by getting ur hopes up then doing nothing after

Anonymous 1d

Well if this is just a one off, then it’s ok cause he actually could be tired. But since this seems to be a multiple occurrence thing, he is being a POS. I think he’s stringing you along and you’re not the priority. Breadcrumbing is incredibly brutal I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Anonymous 1d

either that or he’s saying he doesn’t feel good enough to call me… i just don’t understand we’ve been together for a month but the past week and a half he’s been like this and we’ve barely talked on the phone. idk if i’m just extra worried about this because we’re long distance or what but it seems really off to me and i keep bringing it up and he keeps making excuses and brushing it off idk

Anonymous

OP 1d

and he’s been like this ever since i had sex with him. i literally hadn’t had sex in three years before him because i didn’t trust anyone enough to after my ex but i trusted him because i felt so differently about him and now i’m just really fucking scared

Anonymous

#1 1d

u gotta ask him abt this

Anonymous

#1 23h

i’m seeing him later today so i’m def gonna talk to him about this

Anonymous

#2 23h

yeah in the past week we’ve fted twice. both times he said he was too tired to talk and wanted to gts and i told him that was okay. he tried calling me at 2am tdy when he woke up but i was asleep then, usually i’m not like the other night i waited up till after 4am to see if he’d call and he never did. i just feel like i’m at his beck and call and idk i’m just starting to think he only wants to when it’s convenient to him. i was literally crying to him last night thru voice messages bc i feel-

Anonymous

OP 23h

-so fucking lonely at college and he said “I’m sorry hun I’ll call you a little after I take a shower tn swear to god if that makes it any better:/“ then after he showered he started telling me that he felt sick and his stomach hurt and he just scrolled tiktok til he fell asleep… i’ve tried saying stuff about this before to him and he’s always just like “i’m sorry baby work is stressing me out” (mind you he’s not any more busy with work than he was when we first got together) and kinda brushes

Anonymous

OP 23h

it off like that. i just don’t understand like if he doesn’t feel like fting me i get it but can you just communicate that to me??? instead of just ignoring me and then getting upset when i’m upset at being ignored? i feel like this is not a healthy situation at all, we can see each other once a week max and even then sometimes not, so fting him is basically our hangouts and now that we’re not doing it all the time it’s making me think he’s losing interest.

Anonymous

OP 23h

oh girl i’m so sorry but that’s your answer. some guys legitimately completely lose interest after sex, and the chase is over for them. i feel like a lot of them aren’t even consciously doing it, but after the first time they’re just bored cause they built it up in their heads/“worked” towards it and then want a new chase

Anonymous

OP 21h

u deserve so much more than what he's giving u. it's so unhealthy to stay in this when ur in this cycle of crying and being upset constantly. he's adding so much sadness to ur life, pls pls pls evaluate if u need to breakup with him when u talk next.