
Just because he finds it funny doesn’t mean you have to as well. People have different humors, he needs to understand that. It’s not a joke to you even if it’s a joke to him. And that’s in general. For this specific topic I feel like you should communicate why this group of girls means so much to you and why a joke doesn’t land. If he’s not hearing that, then idk it probably won’t ever stop and he’ll continue to hurt you even a little bit through jokes