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I can’t ever tell if I’m just being sensitive but I told my bf I found a group of girls that play the same game I do (I don’t have friends so this means a lot to me) and he jokingly says “can I get an inv” :/
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Anonymous 3w

nah this would pmo so bad you’re not just being sensitive he should’ve been excited for you!

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Anonymous 3w

Just because he finds it funny doesn’t mean you have to as well. People have different humors, he needs to understand that. It’s not a joke to you even if it’s a joke to him. And that’s in general. For this specific topic I feel like you should communicate why this group of girls means so much to you and why a joke doesn’t land. If he’s not hearing that, then idk it probably won’t ever stop and he’ll continue to hurt you even a little bit through jokes

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Anonymous 3w

Have you expressed how bad it makes you feel? If he doesn’t care then you might need to leave

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Anonymous 3w

It’s not even that I think he’d actually do that but it felt so disrespectful and when I didn’t laugh as hard as him at it, “oh come on it’s a joke” like would it kill you to not ragebait me all the time? What happened to trying to make your gf happy

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Anonymous 3w

I don't see the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Implied cheating is the “joke”

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