Anonymous barry_mcockiner1.0 3d

I did college freshman away in 2023 right after hs . Then dropped out 2024 . Now I’m at home working and doing online classes and it sucks . It really does hurt physically that I’m struggling this much

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Anonymous #2 3d

I’m doing a fast track 2 day 2 classes online a week for the first half then I switched 2 another 2 . Then I work 4-5 days 6 hours. I talked and got a learning disability appointment with a doctor and a meeting with a counselor but things are needing to be turned before then . I don’t feel like leaving my bed

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Anonymous OP 3d

just knw there is no rush girl, u do whatever u need to do to get thru the days. whether that be dropping out for now or something else.

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Anonymous #2 3d

Idk what to do . I hate feeling sad and anxious. But also I’m tired of min wage. I need the degree to get a good job

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Anonymous OP 3d

can you go live at home and put having a job on hold while u do these classes?

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Anonymous #2 3d

I’m currently but also home is very toxic I’m moved to a less toxic family member but I’m still stressed. I’m scared that I will end up homeless Even with a good savings

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Anonymous OP 3d

will ur family member let u stay and go thru school without a job? i think having all that time to focus on ur studying will lessen the stress, but completely get if that isn't an option. also are u medicated for any mental condition? that might help based on how overly stressed and anxious u seem to be about this

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Anonymous #2 3d

Yeah I paid my student loans. Going to work I don’t have to rely on family money which is good cause everyone is struggling. Im scared to have money problems like them. That the one time I get to interact with other people since I have no friends. I’m trying to look for way I get medicated because having a breakdown every week is draining

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Anonymous OP 3d

i think being medicated will help u a ton‼️ and getting ur degree will definitely help keep money problems away, you'll probably have some loans to pay off at the end of ur degree but that's completely fine. my siblings were paying off loans til 28/32 and still live comfortably with their job income. just knw u CAN do this, it sounds like u do want it and hopefully u can find a bit of calmness to continue on with it

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Anonymous #2 3d

I paid off my loan asap cause debt would kill me . my job is just making coffee. Cc is free for me . I feel like a failure

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Anonymous OP 3d

debt will absolutely not kill u depending on what degree and career ur working towards. and ur definitely not a failure, u just need to focus on ur mental health a little bit right now, no harm in that at least u WANT to do something about it. many people never will

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Anonymous #2 3d

Having loan people and school wanting money daily almost made me attempt which is why work my butt of in 1 year to pay 22k

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Anonymous OP 3d

ok yes in the nicest way possible i think it's very important that u get medicated and see a therapist 😭

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Anonymous #2 3d

I’m trying but having to be around family who also struggles with mental health. I have to put mines on the back burner.

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